How do I connect with others?~

Is it easy to connect with other people of is it really hard? To me I think that it is in between, it’s not too easy and it’s not too hard; you just have to find that person that you have in common with. The way I connect with people is always through things that we have in common, from the books we read, the people we know, the food we love and hate, and the things that we enjoy doing. An important aspect to have to really connect with people is to be a good friend and a good listener… When you do that you might one day find your true friends.

I think that I have a hard time to connect with people at some times because sometimes I really can’t relate to some of the things they talk about. I think that the only reason I connect well with people like that I because I am a really good listener. I have no problems at all when listening to people complain about things or explain things… I actually really enjoy listening to them.

Another way that I connect with people is through my wonderful (colorful) way of communicating them. I have a weird way of communicating with people, I use really messed up grammar ( like right now) and talk as loud as I can… Apparently this brings some sort of a happy mood to them…and the fact that I have a really bad sense of humor.

At time when I can relate with what they say that is when I can really connect with people. Another thing is when I find a person that is almost exactly like me.. (MY SOPHIA)… This prompt is really hard to explain because I really have no idea how to connect with people… I just do some random stuff and then bam… we are friends!

Look is more important that having ideas. Disagree of Agree?

Succeeding in something takes hard work and great ideas; the way you look has a little part of being successful but overall having the ideas is most important. People may think that looks are all that matter in being successful and I believe that this fact is correct, people these days are much more concentrated on the way that people look like. Though through all of that I believe (my opinion) on this is that people with the better ideas are more likely to have a successful life.

Ideas are what makes society so advanced, without the ideas of people like Steve Jobs, Benjamin Franklin and Thomas Edison there would not be these cool technology today.  Judging people by the way they look is not really the most logical way into finding people to do a good job; I mean having nicely dressed people will bring a lot of respect to the company or person but what would you rather choose, someone with the ideas or some useless person who can’t do anything but look nice. If there was a combination of the two then that would be the greatest find for a company of some sort.

I really do not know anything about fashion and things like that; as you may already know, I am more interested in things like sports or games or creations of some sorts; I  will dress nicely for important jobs but most of the time I think I will be wearing a uniform (I want to become a surgeon.) This prompt was really not my type of prompt that I would like to talk about but I do know one thing, people with ideas should be respected for what they do… Thank you~

Moving around or staying at one place?~

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Growing up in a island I have always asked this question; “Is it better to live in one city or town than to move from one place to another?” I believe that it is better to stay at one place then decide whether you want to move around; living on Saipan for 16 years have made me realized that moving all the time would make things too hard. Constantly being the new person in a place that you hardly know, trying to find new friends later leaving them and trying to fit in is too much of a hassle for most people…. Or just for me…

I think that it is better to live in one place because moving around will not help strengthen bonds between friends. Friends are a sort of comfort place that you go to because of overbearing parents or parents that do not listen to you at all. By staying in one location your friendship towards a certain friend strengthens even though you would have never talked to that person ever. In my case that was the exact thing…My dad was to be station somewhere in Alaska for his job and I was really excited about it, he declined the offer and took the offer to stay on Saipan; I wasn’t really happy about his decision because I really wanted to move. I never regretted that day he said no because if we did move, I would have never met the wonderful friends that I have now, my bond between my friends have increased through the years and I do not plan on moving yet.

Another reason why I think that it is better for someone to stay in one place is because you would miss the beauty of the place that you once lived at. I live on an island, a totally different atmosphere than in America where the sky is always a bright blue and the sea is a beautiful deep blue. You would never really get to know your surrounding if you continue to move around a lot… The hassle of packing, moving, unpacking and doing the whole process again sounds pretty tiring to me too.

I think that it is way better to stay at one place than to move around all the time; my opinion on this thing doesn’t have to be your answer, it’s your choice in what is better. You do not need to take this blog seriously is you agree otherwise… Thank You~

Happiness~

Happiness is defined as: (www.dictionary.com)

pleasure, joy, exhilaration, bliss, contentedness, delight,enjoyment, satisfaction. Happiness, bliss, contentment, felicity implyan active or passive state of pleasure or pleasurable satisfaction.Happiness results from the possession or attainment of what oneconsiders good: the happiness of visiting one's family. Bliss is unalloyedhappiness or supreme delight: the bliss of perfect companionship.Contentment is a peaceful kind of happiness in which one restswithout desires, even though every wish may not have been gratified:contentment in one's surroundings. Felicity is a formal word forhappiness of an especially fortunate or intense kind: to wish a youngcouple felicity in life.

To me happiness means to be joyful and excited; where nothing in the entire world could ruin you happy mood.  Happiness is one of those emotions in which everyone can obtain easily; though at some points it can be really hard. Happiness is easily obtainable when you really try; even the littlest of things that have no significance at all can bring you some kind of joy. Happiness can be found with the people you love or enjoy being with; happiness can also be obtained through sayings and sayings. Just the memory behind those things can bring someone’s bad day into a good day.

I am generally a happy person and stay happy even through times that seem unhappy; I someone how block all those bad thoughts and see the brighter side of things, and if that isn’t possible I think of things I enjoy. Being unhappy is a really painful emotion; the sudden strain of the heart and the stress your brain takes is not enjoyable either.  To stay happy I always reminisce in the times where everything was happy, my childhood for example, and silently laugh to myself.

Happiness is something that everyone feels once in a while and it’s a great feeling; happiness can be found in almost everything; the first teddy bear your parents got you, the songs that you and your friends dance to, and even the celebrities that you adore (JAMES AND DAVID FRANCO!!!!!!!!!!) By finding the happy things in life instead of the stressful and saddening ones you can truly find happiness… Thank You!

Beneficial Book~

All my life I have always enjoyed reading books; the excitements that I obtain from them are impossible to explain. I have read over 100 books this year on every genre and ever size (usually 200-500 pages) and I think that this prompt would be really hard to talk about. Out of all the books that I have read in my life I think that “The Good Earth” by Pearl S. Buck has greatly impacted my perspective on things and has benefited me in all kinds of ways.

                I read the book “The Good Earth” my freshman year for my literature class; we were assigned to read it by my teacher and once I had read the book I felt that it had changed my view and perspective on most things. Being a classical book it had impacted my view on other classical books; the book had made me much more interested into reading other classical books. Over the three years since I have read the book I have read Huckleberry Finn, The Great Gatsby, Fahrenheit 45, The Things They Carried, Kite Runner and Native Son. Just because of that one book, it had opened my eyes to a new ‘world’ where adventures of every sort happen in your mind.

                The Good Earth was a really good book and I do recommend to some people that it would change your perspectives on books like these. Not only is this book interesting, it also brings out some of your emotions, mostly anger, which is a plus because books like these are really hard to find. So, if you ever see “The Good Earth” is your local book store try and read it; it may not be the ‘fun’ to read at first but once you get into the book then you will enjoy it.

                I really really really love to read books; I do not know what got me started with the reading but once I started I never stopped. I have read all types of books; thriller, horror, tragedy, romance, adventure, ect. And I can tell you this, I never regretted reading them. I think once I start college I won’t read as much books as I want to but I will still find time for that… Thank You~

Three Characteristics of a True Friend~

                Friends are people that we think of as important or part of our family; friends are the people that we have the most fun with. Though this is the correct way of defining friends; what does it mean to have a true friend? Today’s prompt want me to tell three characteristics on what is a true friend; this is really easy prompt for me to answer because I think know what characteristics a true friend has.

                I have my fair share of friends and best friends, many of which were horrible people; I cannot say that I am proud of some of my decisions but for most of them I am totally happy with. I have had only a few people that I can call my true friends; now we get into the part where I describe the characteristics of who is a true friend. True friend are the people that are okay with your “weirdness” and also embrace their inner “weirdness;” the second characteristic is when they act like they are actually related to you and the last characteristic is that they will always be with you in any event that may occur.

                             I believe that having friends that are as weird as you truly defines them as a true friend; I myself am extremely obnoxious at some points and my friends do not care. Having someone that is as equally as weird as you means that you and your friend are really compatible. The second characteristic (when they act like they are actually related to you) may be one of the most important traits that a true friend has because, when someone acts like they are related to you, they know you. Having such a close relationship towards someone like that surely makes you think that they are your true friends. The last of all the traits is that they will always be there in any event that may occur; one would know for sure that the person is really your true friend because normal friends would be too awkward to even do that.

                Thought his was an easy topic to do I still have trouble writing this because I am a really bad blogger and it is really hard to write only three characteristics and stuff?  I am happy that I have my true friends and all sooooooooooooooooooo……………….. yep that’s it….thank you.




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Human's Greatest Strength~

                Humans have multiple strengths and many weak points; but the greatest strength that we human beings have is “Hope” and “Faith.”  Faith and hope seem to be the greatest strengths that I can thin off because hope is the only thing that we human being hold close to us; it seems to be the only thing that keeps us to continue on with our lives.

                 Faith and hope are such strong emotions that human beings house; where these feelings emerge in dire time or when something is strongly prayed for. I myself hold a lot of hope and faith in myself, my family, and my future; this is because there is nothing else I can do but have faith and hope towards them. The world is a cruel place and some unfortunate events happens once in a while; hope for a better future and faith in yourself is the only thing that most humans can rely on to keep going one.  Fate is something that is always unexpected and may cause a great deal of fear to many of us; by having faith and hope, life would continue on and face it like a man.

                This topic is really hard to explain because I really have no clue what may be human’s greatest strength.  To me I think that hope and faith are the greatest strength that we humans carry with us. Personally I have a lot of hope for certain things and I have a lot of faith for a lot of things; without these I think that I would live my days in fear, be alone, and have a really boring life. I have a lot of hope towards my future; graduating college, becoming a doctor, getting married, and later die from natural causes. These hopes for the future keep me on track and make my life an adventure.

                When I think about it, these strengths much more likely applies towards me because I am the one writing it. It not really easy writing something like this and my answer is not really valid so please excuse this if you do not agree…This is my own opinion towards wheat is human’s greatest strength....sooooo..... Thank you very much.

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